I found things belonging to a female in my boyfriends flat?

[LaughN Pantha]

First of all why are you afraid to turn this into an argument? Obviously sometthing is going on and you need answers and to be treated with respect. You know what you want and don't be afraid to demand it. You don't need to worry about embarrassing yourself. If you end up losing him, why give a damn? You NEED a man who will care for you, respect you, and listens to you when you'll say "I'm the only one and it should stay that way!" You don't need anything smart to say, BE YOU and BE BRAVE. Kick him in the nuts if you have to!

If you want you can plan on pranking him with your friend's help, then post on facebook to embarrass him.