Please help, what should I do?

[Mr.Pop]

First of all, get the idea of having a normal relationship out of your head since you're in the military. I was and saw a lot of my friend's relationships destroyed. I never was, but just from my observation, military relationships are over glorified, and quite seriously, you are taking someone away from having a normal and LEGITIMATE relationship. People can bash me all day for saying that, but seeing someone only once every couple months for years until they're discharged, or even less if they're deployed, or if you're lucky and you get to live on base.

THAT makes military relationships pathetic and in my opinion an abomination. I sympathize for you, but cut the crap, you're taking HIM away from someone else who would/could be there with him 99x more than you could.

Get over him. Allow him to have a happy relationship. I hate to sound so harsh, but I saw enough friends go down that path, and it disgusted me.