I have a new girlfriend but her ex sends her gifts and writes one liner 'miss you' posts on fb.What to do?

[Nick]

Hi thanks for the reply. I don't have it in me to spread rumors about someone I don't know. I have told her in the past that it makes me feel uncomfortable. And I for sure do not want to come off as being overly possessive. I've also read some advice on here about giving the three chances of severing ties and from what I'm told she did so. But I can't help but to feel like I'm being either tested or played like a fool as a result of my patience dealing with the situation. He doesn't get the message, I get that. But does she clearly giving him the right message?


Hey Sol,
Really appreciate your time answering btw. It is a double edged sword situation. I even went as much as to empathize for the guy and that time will heal, cause I have been in the situation myself. And that keeping fb pics of him and her on her profile might 'lead' him on to thinking she still has feelings for him. So she took them off. Yet he kept them on and even went as far as to put them as his profile pic ? I know. Fb is not the end all be all but if I didn't notice these things I would have been kept in the dark about alot of things, let alone feel this way. I also think he's toying with her emotions and that I think is pathetic.