Why are people so interested in talking behind my back?

[Tutti Frutti]

As you get older life teaches your things, one of which is that you can't control what other people do, think, feel or say. All you can do is focus on YOU; your behaviour and reactions to other people.

You can't make people like you, or stop them talking about you. You can't make people think you are beautiful. All you CAN do is focus on yourself. Be the best person you can be. Like and accept yourself and stuff them! You won't be in school for ever.... maintain your dignity. Do things to enhance your self esteem, have confidence in yourself, your abilities and HOW you are.

doesn't seem to me that its YOU who has a problem or needs to change.