no one is answering my question?

[Matt]

Maybe he is taking it slowly and he wants to talk to your brother and get all cool with him before making a move on you, though that about his mom having a stroke, you were in a relationship with him ask yourself this, does he have a sick and twisted side? if he doesn't then why would he lie about his mom having a stroke. And maybe he now realises that you care about him, but don't want to be with him, though you don't know what his new girlfriends reaction was when he told her his mom had had a stroke.