how do i contact facebook directly?

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Try looking at Facebook's page in Facebook and see if any information is provided there. There is a way to do it through the Help area but it takes some wading through their Help...

I'll see if I can find it in help and post back if I find how they can be contacted with Help.

Below is a link to a Facebook Help page, scroll to the very bottom and look for the bold topic "Reporting Abuse on Facebook". I would think based upon your desire to keep the issue quiet here of the four options, you may wish to use 1, 2 or 3.