He is messing with my head and this hurts?

[Gina]

I think he's playing with you, but this just may be my opinion. I think you should distance yourself from him. If he's married, he shouldn't be flirting with you and leading you on. That's close to being unfaithful to his wife and unfair to you because you've got feelings for him and you can't have him. So if you want to avoid upsetting his wife and family, and getting yourself into a big mes(not being mean here) you should tell him to stop gently but firmly and just avoid him until your feelings cool. It will hurt for while but I think that you'd be better off without him.