is this woman crazy? 10 points?

[O.o]

She's possessive and jealous, to some degree, and she is letting herself be that way, she is probably somewhat insecure... She is probably jealous of his daughter, or anyone who might get a lot of her boyfriends attention... She is probably not very introspective, and doesn't realize that her actions make her look bad, and are wrong. She feels lucky to have this guy, and wants to keep him, she is just responding to her feelings in an unhealthy way, many of us have issues like that in relationships. It is unclear if she loves him or not, but she probably does, or is dependent on him emotionally, because he is clearly the center of her life.

He is distracted from his past life and from being there for his daughter, other things are at the forefront of his focus, and he probably makes the excuse that his daughter is doing just fine, and he need not be concerned, and he will visit her soon.. But he puts it off...
Either that, or he is too distracted by his relationship, or is having a hard time facing his past right now, seeing his kid might mean seeing his ex-wife.
In a relationship, it's difficult to see that you're dating someone who is NUTS sometimes, because you love them and that can cloud your judgment... Or perhaps he has noticed, but is frightened to do much about it... It sometimes easier just to coast, than confront someone who might be a little volatile or unstable about an issue.
Perhaps they are mutually beneficial to each other at this time, and neither is ready to give it up or attempt to build a healthier relationships, they may not see an issue with it at this point.