i am extremely lame and don't know whats going on !?

[Aj]

You clearly have access to the wrong sources. Allow a relative young person tell you what to do:
1. Read as much as possible the entertainment news and websites to be kept up to date about news that teenagers find interesting like the latest trends, news about celebrities, the latest hits in music and relevant gossip. See link for an example. Teenagers usually are not all that interested in the day to day boring dry news that old(er) people read.
http://www.eonline.com/

2. Profile your strengths and talents. Everyone has at least one: looks, playing an instrument, being good in sports, cooking, whatever this may be and make this known to your friends, if you haven't already. You can do this e.g. via YouTube.

3. Most important to remember though is that life is not about being the most known, or the most popular. Be the best first and foremost in school, and you'll be noticed by those who really matter.....potential good colleges and even potential employers that will give you a good career for the rest of your life.

Hope this helps.