how can i get a girlfriend?

[john]

- Be comfortable alone. You have to dress well and not act cool or be a try hard just be loose
- Help someone. It could be her, or it could be someone else in the room.
- Approach tons of girls on a consistent basis. If you see a girl you find attractive you go and talk to her (doesn't matter what time it is).
- Avoid being afraid to fail. Remember, fear of rejection is extremely irrational.
- Avoid giving yourself time to make excuses.
- Practice genuinely complimenting girls. Challenge yourself to find something beautiful in any girl.
- Make her laugh. Girls love guys who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be lighthearted, and unabashedly yourself.
- Flirt. Keep all your friendships slightly flirty to avoid falling into the friend zone.
- Go on a date. Once you have met a girl that you feel you truly connect with, you need her to like you.
- If you are shy it helps when you have one of your best friends with you to encourage you.