Do I have the right to be mad when someone is clearly ignoring my texts and face book messages?

[Another Crone]

Getting back in touch clearly did not mean, for him, that he was under any sort of obligation to reunite in a manner that suggested he was under any sort of your control.

Clearly that can make you as mad as you want it to. Or not make you mad at all. Entirely your choice! The more angry it makes you that he is not available at your bidding... the less likely he'll make himself available. Seems you could have crossed over that line already... or, if you just knock it off, he might reach out again later.

Getting in touch and reuniting are not the same thing. Living 4 hours away in what has never been a steady relationship suggests that there is more fantasy than reality involved anyway. If you CAN leave it alone, leave it alone!