I am gay and i want tell a straight guy which a really lov en fb if he loves me , hos should i do this?

[Mommy2b]

?WHY. Why would you do that? There is no point except to cause drama. As you eloquently pointed out & are aware of- Straight Man- would be the operative and oh so important answer to your question.
Not only are you going to alienate him and probably remove him from your life, but if you in fact Love him- ?why would you event consider causing him that kind of turmoil when you know, he's Straight & Does not love you back in That Way? That's just selfish. Every thought or feeling we have, doesn't have to be "shared". Particularly, when sharing it, will create a possible hardship for someone else.
If you hope he will profess his undying mutual affection, you are mistaken. If you think, he's really homosexual & this might spark the flame for acknowledging that- It Will Not.
It's fine, that you feel Love for this person. Now, file it in your "personal" file, and keep it to yourself.
Straight men, A LOT of them, would be inctedibly uncomfortable with this revelation- publuc-FB- or otherwise. Please, keep your feelings private where you enjoy them & they don't cause drama for this man. My answer would be the same, regardless of sexual orientation- It's just more ardently applied in this specific case. Imagine his mother sees a proclamation that his gay friend is in love with her straight son- or his girlfriend, wife, best dude friend- It's Uncomfortable, Private, and inappropriate. I would take issue with ANYONE proclaiming their Revelation Of Undying Love for me on Facebook!! ?if you can't say it to their face in private....do not say it at all. You are making a public statement & choice for this man without his input or approval- you are taking away his ability to NOT participate.
IF, you Love this person, you won't proclaim it on Facebook nor any other for of Internet Communicatipn, Social Media, or
Electronic transfer. If you Love him- you call him privately if you are just Unable to NOT share. Don't cause this man trauma, you alreasy know he bats for the other team- you are not doing it for reciprocity- you would be doing it to showboat. That's not love dude. Love means NOT embarrassing the one you love. A gay BFF "proclaimed" his undying love for my boyfriend of 5 years, publicly. It was horrible. My guy & my gay were never able to look at each other again. My gay wanted to kiss him, and my guy wanted to punch him. (So there went my bliss.) It accomplishes nothing, and you will be rejected- publicly. If you DO Love him...You do not want to cross that boundary and cause him embarrassment & discomfort.