Not putting 'in a relationship' in your FB status?

[john]

It's not necessarily a bad thing to not have your status be "in a relationship" on facebook. He is right, it ruins relationships as I've experienced before. It mainly happens because other people become jealous of other's happiness and try to spilt a happy couple apart. But it does sound suspicious that he checks that lady's texts during sex and pauses a video game. He could be good friends with her or he could be trying to date her, which sounds like a good reason why he checks his messages during sex. If you feel doubtful, simply check his messages. If he freaks out, then he's more likely cheating or trying to cheat. Hope it helps, and best of luck!