Do you think this is possible?

[Crrider13]

Is your husband at all tech smart? is he good with computers? Because anyone who spends a lot of time on computers and understands them wouldn't make a mistake like sending a dating site reset to a joint email account. If he's not all that tech smart then its pretty likely he's lying.

More than anything else though you should trust your own feelings. If it seems to you like he's lying then he probably is. You know him better than anyone else. If you really feel like it could just be a silly mistake then go with that. Either way your first impression of the situation is most likely the correct one. But if you go back and re-read the way you wrote your question, it seems like you already know the answer and you're just looking for someone to talk you out of it.

Sorry to drop something heavy like that on you.

If it helps you can always remind yourself that I don't know you, in fact I'm probably some 12 year old kid in Russia who has no idea what he's talking about... if that makes you feel any better