How to get over my gay ex? Even though my mom won't let me date or accept me for who I am.?

[Hermes]

You are 18 years old. You have rights now, she can fight you - she can pitch you out of your house (though I find that inconceivable for a parent and I am the parent of three kids - you can tell her that some parents think she is a disgusting git if she even suggests such a grossly immoral thing - but it is her legal right. ) but she can't stop you. Your mom can refuse to accept you until the end of time - but she cannot stop you from dating who you want. It is no longer her business who you date or love.

I recognize that she has twisted you. She is your mother and you loved her and its become very hard to separate it all out for you - you want to please her and she wants to command you. It is NOT worth it to please her. She doesn't, in my opinion, and I say this as a father, deserve you trying to please her. In my opinion she is disgusting, and honestly I would tell her that to her face if I were on your coast.

Decide what you want, discard all of her teaching on sexuality. Love yourself, LOVE YOURSELF. Love your b/f or whatever future boys you love. Recognize that everything she has ever told you about love, sex and relationships is crap tainted by her prejudice and believe in yourself.

Real family is chosen, not selected by genetics. There are people who will love you for who you are, fully. If you need to talk my email is in my profile.

Kind thoughts,

Hermes