Should I forgive her for cheating?

[Chris Hill]

Dump her , first of all shes saying you weren't there for her to remind her of you and her , that's manipulation . what she did was wrong regardless of being under the influence and she used you as an excuse for it! Its not even like she had the decency to come to you and tell you , you had to find out on your own . I had a similar situation with an ex of mine we broke up and I ended up sleeping with another girl even tho I truly loved my ex , well what happened was we got back together days later but I told her about what I did before BC its decency . you finding out on your own is a major red flag . I'd say give her another chance if she came to you immediately and told you everything from the get she is most likely genuinely sorry butt she didn't. And the msgs on Fb another red flag , she said she was using him , well for what ? Dick ? She shouldn't need any man besides you .