does she not want to be my friend?

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I think the way you declined her invitation was perfectly fine, and you have made it clear that you want to meet her again by suggesting brunch. There can be many reasons why she hasn't replied to your message, even if she read it. She may not have had an answer for you right then and later forgot to reply. I have done that very thing myself. So I suggest you try contacting her again, and give her a few specific choices with regard to dates and activities, and say that you are also open to other suggestions if there's something she really wants to do. And it is perfectly ok for you to tell her that a hookah lounge is not really your thing, I would have done the same thing.