Boyfriend has blocked me from a new facebook he created..please read...?

[Gameron]

The trouble with Facebook is that in a relationship it's open all access, and it opens areas and problems that you wouldn't otherwise face. As much as relationships should 'share' everything and be as open as possible, quite frankly there are some things that a person just needs to keep to themselves (or their friends) as a way of de-stressing.

I'm sure there are times when you yourself are annoyed at your boyfriend and you say something to a friend, it's likely flippant and in the long run probably doesn't mean anything at all, but once it's on Facebook it looks less flippant and more serious than it may be.

It isn't wrong of him to sometimes think "He'd rather be at work than home", however painful as it is to hear, work is straight-forward, it's not complicated or confusing. Sometimes the "home life" is. It is however wrong that his friends then take it to facebook, but friends tend to do that and tease the person knowing it will cause trouble.

You need to get him to understand this, and this is a chance for you both to strengthen your relationship rather than set yourself in a routine of 'hiding' things.

It is wrong that a partner opens up a facebook with the intention of hiding it from the other rather than openly discussing the problems, but he obviously thinks it's easier than dealing with the situation with you, you need to take charge and show him that you can be perfectly reasonable when discussing relationship problems and that it is the correct thing to do, and if you can't do that then you need to get out now, because the relationship will-not be one you want.