do guys have feelings too?

[samiamrd]

You have to assume that this relationship has come to an end. His other woman was testing the water. You really should not put any more into this relationship. You also have to stop being concerned about his feelings. I know that you loved him, but its probably not mutual any more. So don't worry about him moving on, you need to heel yourself, and move on with your life. It is going to be difficult, but you need to put this behind you.

Look there will be a better guy out there for you. Someone who loves you as much as you love him. This 7 year guy is not that, he certainly is not in this for the long run, so his feelings are not aligned with yours any more. You don't know how long they may have been out of alignment with your feelings. Well it is time to find someone better. Also every relationship is about faith. You have to have faith that they love you for who you are. Sometimes that works out, and sometimes it does not, but that should not interfere with your ability to find someone new who loves you as much as you love them. Think about you and your future. This guy, even through you loved him, is not the right guy for you. You are the only one looking out for your happiness, so create your future happiness with someone else. Normal guys do have feelings.