Can someone's router I'm using see what I do on my laptop?

[Someone Else]

Generally, no.

However, most routers do allow you to see web addresses that were put through the router from any computer that is accessing it. But not all routers can do that.

It is possible that they installed software on your laptop when you were not looking. Like maybe a VNC program? With VNC, they can see EVERYTHING that you are doing on your laptop. And you would not know they are doing so if they are in "stealth mode." With VNC, you can see anyone's computer on the Internet, not just your own local network.

How can you detect if they are running a VNC program? Review the list of programs that are running in your TASK MANAGER. If you see any you do not recognize, you can Google it to find out what it is.

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