social network question related to business?

[Sam]

I'm relatively new to affiliate marketing.

I've set up a blog webpage.

My next step is to bring in traffic.

The part about social networking gives me a headache.

I've started a new account for pretty all the big ones out there. Eg fb, twitter, pinterest, g+.

Fb and twitter are obviously the ones on top.

Remember, i've started a fresh account with all them bc I want to keep my business and personal life separated from e/o.

The problem:

On facebook esp. How do people get so many people to like or become friends?

Every time I try to add people fb keeps suspending me for 7 days!

So i'm stuck and can't add more people.

Same goes for twitter. I'll try and send out tweets to people with same interest and twitter will suspend me!

How do all these gurus teach about fb n all the other social networks out there but never explain how its actually done?

I can't grow my friends list. And I need to figure out how to do this if someone out there knows a way to go about this please let me on it.

Thanks!