Is he using me? I met him on tinder....?

[Harry]

My dear you need to understand that every relationship has different phases in it, it keeps on changing once you move on. At the start of a relationship there is always so much to know about each other. But once you have progressed ahead, in your case 2 and a half weeks, there are no immediate questions for each other all day long. The thing about him not replying immediately is because he knows that your not going anywhere and ur secured with him. This does not mean that he has any ill intentions or anything. He might genuinely be busy or something. Never over analyze something my dear. You've also mentioned about his ex-girlfriend, i don't personally see anything happening on that front too. You need to learn to trust a person my dear. It takes a lot of effort and love to sustain a relationship.

This relation is just 2 and a half weeks old, now you have to be realistic of what your expecting out of it. You can't expect him to be like your husband or anything. Give it time and space dear. You should also not forget the fact that you enjoy his company. If he does keep ignoring you or gives you concrete reasons for you to doubt him, then only bail out of it. You also remember that you'll have met through a casual dating app, where there are no strings attached to any relationship. If your looking for a serious kind of relation or something like that then you should talk to him about this. He should also have the opportunity to know you better and then make a decision about the future.


So bottomline, give this relation a little more time to develop and mature. Once you have known him better and want to turn this into a serious thing, talk to him about it. If things don't turn out well, then there is plenty of fish out there to choose from.

Hope things work out for the best for you. Take care