GIRLS! I need your opinions?!!!?!?

[Dreamer]

Don't worry so much! If she really wasn't interested at all she wouldn't have said she wanted to meet up during the bus stop confrontation. You gave her an out and she didn't even politely decline. So Facebook messaging her something really casual like "Hey ____, are you free on Saturday? I was thinking we could meet up and _____" and just suggest something simple like getting lunch or coffee. Don't overdo it, but by not taking the out you gave her when you were straight up with her she basically invited you to keep talking to her. I wouldn't so much recommend waiting too long for her to talk to you first, as girls tend to be the ones who think that way. If she's doing what I did when my boyfriend started talking to me at first, I let him make the plans and contact me first every time, even if it meant sitting by the phone all day hoping for a text. Thats just how girls work. In an attempt to not seem clingy and desperate we sometimes overshoot it and come off as if we aren't interested. Obviously its working on you if thats what she's playing at. So just come up with an idea and ask her on a specific day to hang out. If she says she can't for whatever reason, THEN you let her be the one to substitute it with a different day or make other plans with you. Until then, take the lead.