Why is he so stubborn? Am I wrong or is he?

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Been with him for almost 4 years and I do everything in my power to make him happy- Everything! was just last week I through a birthday for him and bought him personal lessons for MMA that he always wanted. And I am loyal, dont party or do anything harmful. I respect him and anything he asks I do. When I had facebook and he aske dme to put a status idid it no questions asked.

Now that he has facebook, I ask him to put a status and when I do he gets upset because he thinks I am trying to make him my territory and I am just being jelous because I asked him when a girl liked his status. But the truth is I ask him to do this because I want to feel like he loves me enough and cares to do the small things to make me happy- if he isnt willing to do such a small thing for me, then how can I believe he loves me and cares to be there for me? He gets angry and says who cares about social media and it is stupid and shouldnt matter and that he treats me right in real life and its just social media and real life should be enoguh.

But heres the thing- it isnt about the status and rather the act of doing something to make the other happy big or small and I feel like I always go out of my way for him and treat him right and he cant do such a small thing? I told him this and he is still being stubborn about it. It was just last week he apologized for being stubborn and that he should be a better guy and now he does this? He told me that hes realized things. what do i do?
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Im not an ugly person either so why am i being treated this way!