does anyone else feel like facebook causes problems in their relationships?

[Matt]

facebook in my opinion causes a LOT of problems in relationships. Because it's one of the best ways people find to spy on their significant other. For instance, when you're in a relationship with someone and they just added you to their facebook, what is one of the first things you do? Go and look at the friends list right? But what are you looking for? To see who all their 300 friends are? or to see if there are any names that jump out at you from past conversations, say that of an ex or a crush. Then depending on who you are with, they may post every tiny detail of your relationship on their wall. So if its good, they will say they had fun or enjoyed whatever it was you did. If it is bad they blow it all out of proportion just so they can get their 300 friends to "like" their status or to comment on it. Or if you are talking on the phone, they say they are going to bed, do you ever go on facebook to see if they really did go to bed? or are they up still on facebook? Those are just SOME of the reasons facebook is very bad for relationships if you don't know how to control yourself on it