My BF wont add me to his FB or even post pics of us?

[Fred Mandel]

Trust is big thing in any relationship/friendship.

If you can't trust someone than your relationship isn't going to last.

There may well be nothing to him hanging out with female co-workers but men are sneaky and sometimes cannot be trusted and yes women can be the same, it's part of human nature. I don't think it helped the situation by going through his phone as my wife did the same to me but for different reasons, but he shouldn't get defensive or angry if there's nothing for him to hide. It sounds like there's been a trust issue early on. Be honest and open with him , tell him how you feel. If you don't trust eachother than you aren't going to have a very nice time together as you'll always be worrying what he's up to when you're not together

It could be nothing but I smell something fishy.

I personally would talk to him and ask him to be honest with you why he does all this because to me it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it which means he wants you and a bit on the side as well. Any decent caring person would not be this sneaky ans secretive and it sounds like a recipe for heartache and pain. If he doesn't give you the EXACT reasons why and not just some bull about wanting to keep you a FB separate and not wanting everybody knowing his bizness then why is he on FB in the first place!?!? I don't like facebook for many reasons. It's not all bad but has from my experience cause a lot of trouble but I guess that's not FB itself it's people who are on it.

Ask him why he's on FB if he wants to keep his life and business private?

Sounds like he's just telling you what you want to hear when he said he'll add you eventually.

Let's say for example that you hate porn but he likes it and has been looking at it even though he knows you hate it and say for example you need to use a laptop/pc and you ask to use his but because he's been doing something he knows is wrong he acts all edgy , cagey and evasive because he's been doing something he knows he shouldn't and doesn't want you to find out.

It's a classic sign that when a person does this they are hiding something because they it's wrong and if it wasn't so then they would have absolutely no reason to deny you because they would be nothing for them to hide but it sounds like he's got something to hide.

This probably isn't easy for you and I wish you the best of luck but remember that if he ain't totally honest with you then he's probably never gonna change and if you stay with him you'll just be wasting time that could be spent doing much more worthwile things like getting a new fella that worships the ground you walk on and respects your feelings and who you are.

You deserve better than this and i'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who will treat you better than this you just sometimes have to wait to find that special someone.

Keep searching and eventually amongst all the pain and dirt that is life you will find that diamond in the rough.

I hope one day you'll find your prince charming and when you do it'll feel like a knight in shining amour has swept you off your feet.

It took me a while to find my soulmate but when I did it felt like my life had just begun. We have had many goodtimes together and I (eventually!) got the courage to ask her to marry me and when she replied with no hesitation my heart wanted to burst with indescribeable joy.

Brand new wife
Brand new life

Go get 'em Girl !