Would it be overly harsh to block this clingy guy?

[Bianca]

Wow, he wants you to publicly declare him as your boyfriend? After a little bit of small talk, and you actually ignoring him online for two days, when you've never even met in person? Just...wow.

You should tell him that you've met someone and have a boyfriend now, so you are no longer interested in meeting him. Then, delete and block him on Facebook, and block him on Zoosk too. And in the future do not friend anyone on Facebook just because they ask you to - I've heard of people friending people they've only known online, but that's when they've really struck up a conversation and think they can really be friends - not some random guy from a dating site who is giving you the creeps from the get-go. If they want to add you right away like he did, tell them you aren't comfortable giving them your facebook information and phone number so quickly. If the guy has a problem with that, he's not someone you should be talking to anyway. I would actually say you don't even owe him an explanation - just block him, but then he still has your phone number and would likely keep calling and texting. Hopefully he respects your decision to cut contact with him and stops calling you - if he doesn't, you may need to call your phone company and block his number. Whatever you do, do NOT give him your address or any more personal information.

NEVER give out your phone number unless you actually want to. It's an invitation for harassment, which you are finding out now.

You don't necessarily need to delete your Zoosk profile, just block this one guy - you did pay for it after all, I'm assuming. And you might meet someone actually worth dating on there - just be more careful from now on. Don't give your personal information unless YOU really want to give it - it doesn't sound like you really wanted to give this guy your phone number or Facebook URL, you just did because he asked you to. It's okay to say no, or "not until we know each other better." If you keep the relationship on Zoosk, if he starts to creep you out, all you need to do is block him and you're done. Once you give him your personal details, it will be harder to get rid of him - so don't do it from now on until you want to.