My husband had a secret FB account.?

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I have been married to a nice guy for the past 4 years, ( no kids).Recently i ws shocked to learn that my husband had a secret FB account.He never approved of me having an FB account since he said he was "protective " about me. Only coz of him i cut off contacts with all my male friends.But when i looked thru his friend list, it had many female friends.During a casual conversation too , i heard him saying to his friends that he is against having FB account, its just waste of time.So there was no question of me eve asking him if he had an account. Coz from his talks it appeared he hated it .I m sure he has no affair outside but i felt offended since he kept it hidden from me for so long and tactfully used words to cover up everything.When i went thru the chats he had with few female friends of his, i read him giving them compliments on their looks .BUt he wudnt approve me talking to any male friends , let alone receiving compliments from them.
After that incident , i've kind of started loosing trust in him.Since i have never kept anything hidden from him i cried a lot.Now when he gives me compliments it feels like fake to me.
I felt like a fool ..I m a housewife , and he acts very dumb ,probably to make me feel that he is very innocent.But having a fb account and chatting with his female friends without letting me know is something i still cant get out of my head. We had fight on this topic 2weeks back and then things were ok but i still cant get it out of my head.Am i over reacting ?