BF is splitting up with me over FB message how can I get him back please help?

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Let's summarize.

Your boyfriend didn't want you to be close to a guy you f*cked. - Pretty reasonable
You removed contact with the guy you f*cked - Right thing to do
You then came into contact with the guy you f*cked again - Wrong thing to do
Your boyfriend no longer trusts you because you're still talking to the guy you f*cked - He's right to feel this way

What was the point of ending contact with the guy you f*cked, if you just decided to let him into your life again? The amount of contact is not important. The purpose behind losing contact with him was because it made your boyfriend uncomfortable.

You disregarded his feelings the second time around, because it was no big deal to *you* but what about his feelings and what you guys originally discussed?

How'd you like this if it were the other way around? How'd you like it if some chick your boyfriend f*ckd started talking to him again after you told him you didn't like it?