Boyfriend does this after sex. I feel confused?

[Timothy]

No, all men are not like this. I prefer to cuddle and talk. I usually get that much more talkative, but I also am that much more relaxed which leads to a higher likelihood of sleep.XD One thing I like to do is spoon afterwards. Now, it's not every time, but most of the time I like to just hold my girlfriend in my arms and relax. I will not go on my phone or a computer, that's just insensitive. I have been known to get something to eat after...I mean, I'm simple sometimes,sex, food and sleep. Sex should be about connecting, growing and love.