How to send a Facebook message anonymous?

[White Raven]

I think that you could possibly be exposing yourself to risks of being found out and making matters worse. And the message could go into the other folder and then it is all for naught.

Honestly, if a person has ruined your life, your communication with them on FB is likely not fully the answer to the problem. Your life is not ruined. Yesterday is gone. The story is not over yet. People who ruin others' lives have a way of getting what is coming to them, and people who have been hurt by others' destructive behavior have a way of rising like a Phoenix from the ashes and making a comeback.

Work on your comeback, and a positive next chapter that this person won't ruin. Good luck.