Is it ok for bf to have fb but not me I feel this is unequal not fair?

[Michael]

Sounds like your headed into an abusive relationship. Cutting females off from their social contacts and isolating them is one of the first steps to abuse. Remember the abuser doesn't see their actions as abuse, they often see it as love. In a healthy relationship there are always boundaries, cutting you off from your friends and support is not fair.

You need to set your boundaries now, having a FB account is perfectly reasonable for any human being. Demand you be allowed to conduct your life the way you want to. If he does not agree then leave the relationship. Seriously if he is willing to ending the relationship because you have a FB account he's not worth it.

FB does create drama, it's a problem, it sucks. But a healthy relationship deals with problems as they arise. Compared to raising children together, FB and all it's drama is a bump in the road if you can't deal with that together it's not a serious relationship you should be in.