Am i getting used by gf?

[Della Riata]

Cheeses, guy! If you're going to base your relationship on who is paying for what, maybe you should give her a chance to hook up with someone else? The place I come from, it is customary for the guy to pay for everything, unless the girl wants to pay. Otherwise, YOU, should be paying for everything! If this relationship get serious and marriage should come out of it? Are you going to expect her to pay for half of the house and all of the bills? NO! She's not using you, because she's offered to pay for some things and you've said no. She's also making food for you.