Am i selfish or a bad person for this?

[reme_1]

I'm glad you got rid of the wine. Every night drinking is NOT good for you- no matter how little.
One night you might have gone too far and needed to be there for your daughter in an emergency and you couldn't function. How would you live with yourself after that?
You are not being selfish by telling your gf that you need time with your daughter and she has to understand that.
Sometimes it is hard for a person without a child to really get it.

Regarding lonliness, forget that for the time being. It has only been 4 days and you'll already breaking down? It is time to get yourself together and decide what you really want.
Hang out with friends, enjoy your alone time with your little one on a play date.
Get to know you again.
And don't worry about whether you are butch or tomboyish. Be who you are.