Help i think I made a huge mistake. did I?

[Chris Durensky]

Marriage and kids in general is a touchy subject for guys, especially at 26. The fact that he was brining it up was a sign that he was thinking in that direction, just not there are as fast as you were. As ladies, we have a biological clock ticking, telling us we are running out of time, that isn't there for men.
This miscommunication could have been avoided with good communication skills. Breaking up over something this little should be a sign for you that the relationship probabley wouldn't have worked out in the long run when things really get heated over bigger things. Although it may not feel like it now, there is your special someone out there. He comes on his own time and FINDS YOU> no point in looking for him. Interpersonal communications is the study of how we use non verbal communications between each other and you might be very interested in learning a few things about it. Him spending more time with his friends meant he was hurt and retreating.
Taking that class in college changed my life and has enabled me and my husband to have a lasting relationship, argument free. It's understanding that the things we do and how we do them are sending signals to our friends, stranger and partners. It also went deeply into what to do when things get heated and how to de-escalate it. As far as getting over this OH so great guy, I don't know how many times I've felt like that. As long as it took to find a new oh so great one I suppose. There is nothing we can do when someone blocks us out from there life. It's the end of the discussion for them. So we turn to ourselves and find a way to put your focus and attention back onto you. Building your life the way you want it to be. Then when MR. Right comes along, he figures a way to add to it, not be your only source of happiness. I can't tell you how many vocations are wishing for someone that doesn't have a hubby and children waiting and are willing to pay big bucks to take up your free time. Use it to your advantage. Get that savings account going. Money will be a big issue when you become married. What about paying for that huge wedding you have dreamed of for so long. That isn't going to be cheap either. There will be plenty of time to spend with your future hubby and children, but you will have wished that you had saved more or worked more when you didn't have them. If it's children that you are really wishing that you had, become a big sister. Babies are great and all but they grow up and you have to be able to relate to them as older children, with problems and issues to discuss. Reach out to your friends who are married and have children. Everyone needs a night out. Finding someone to trust with that is really hard. Be a little selfish, use this time on you. Good luck and Best wishes.