Mother in law driving me crazy....?

[Val]

Anybody out there have a MIL who is ALL over your baby?

I have a son who is 7 weeks today. She is just all over him. Idk what it is, but it just makes me so mad!

It's like she wants to play mommy. She constantly wants him over at her house, and when other family members are wanting to hold him, she pouts and says "no i want to hold him"

When we go somewhere with her, she carries either him or the carseat (with him in it) around and shows him to everyone. Sometimes she even takes him out of the carseat (without asking) and asks someone else WITHOUT asking me, "do u want to hold him?" like hes her dang baby.

All of her friends have made it all about her. "Oh he looks just like you" "what a sweet baby you have" Uhm, hes not her baby and he certainly does NOT look like her.

She always tries to run my (soon to be) husband and I off so she can hover around him and kiss him all over the place. I know she is his gma, but i dont want her germs and breath all over him.

The other night she was holding him a way he didn't like to be held and she said "do u have a tummy ache" and i said "no he doesn't like to be held like that, here let me walk him around for a little bit" so i reach out for him and she just gets up and walks off in the kitchen trying to calm him down.

She has him as her profile picture on facebook, her timeline cover, she has to comment on EVERY picture i post of him and she even tags herself in them when i only want his dad tagged.

Everytime someone asks me a question involving Liam (my son) she has to butt in and answer it before i ever get the chance.

I don't have much time with him during the week as it is because of school, and weekends are the only actual quality time i have with him, and she knows that. But i guess she don't care, she just wants him to herself when i go with them places. I told my fiance all this running around on the weekends is gonna have to stop, mom and dad come first, not grandma.

Is she obssesive? Am i overreacting? Is it a first time mom thing?
Actually i have 3 different accounts on here. I just log into one, it doesn't make a difference which account i'm on. Thanks for trying to be rude
Snowwillow- it mainly just bothers me when she asks someone to hold him without my permission. Or when she doesn't give him back when i ask.
Snowwillow- it mainly just bothers me when she asks someone to hold him without my permission. Or when she doesn't give him back when i ask.