I need to know how to sue someone in small claims court?

[Deadite9]

Someone got a hold of explicit material of me then attempted to blackmail me. When the attempt failed she posted it on youtube and facebook. While the content was immediately removed I am not taking this lying down. The fact that this person does this to people is enough to make me take action let alone that it happened to me. I want to take them to court but I don't know how. I don't even know who they are. All I have is a skype name, and a fb profile, both are probably aliases unless I got rooked by one of the worlds dumbest criminals. Anyway I can't get any more info about her. Is there any one who can help? OOOOooor alternately if anyone knows how to get more information about this person based off what I have? Any information or help is appreciated. I feel like I should be throwing in some vengeful death threats and what not, but that all feels so cliche at the same time. I'd rather get the upper hand and carry out a nefarious (legal) masterminded plan instead of blow hot air.
Before anyone can troll me on it. Yes I realize I put a question mark at the end on accident. If I could fix it I would -_-