Need Advice. Should I trust my fiance now?

[mr_gees100_peas]

Yep, technology advances faster than we have time to adjust.

Bottom line is he likes her. That's what you wanted to confirm right? yep, he likes her and is attracted to her for whatever reason. There is a myth that we have been told all of our lives. That is that we are anothers person everything. BULL_WINKLE!!!!! both men and woman feel attraction toward other people. Not all the time ofcourse but, some of the time. Its normal. Is there a danger? maybe or maybe not. It depends on how far a person may be willing to take it. For some people it is just a game. OR sometimes they feel great when another person is giving them some attention. It is so easy to neglect our love ones simply because we fall into a routine. People misunderstand attention. You can spend all day 7 days a week with one person and still that dos not fulfill their attention need because it is not about time but about content. For example, I spent some time listening to my wife's concerns and everyday dull drum and the relationship with her and her friends. However, I don't feel the reciprocated. The moment I open up about my weird views of the world or interest she quickly looses interest. I have brought it up and I feel (is what I feel and not necessarily what it is truly going on) that she doesn't understand this. This is why on occasion I have talked to other females and when they start showing signs of attention then I feel attracted to them. It doesn't last because lets face it, I don't think I would listen to myself either HAHAHA but, it is that desire to fill that hole that drives us away even if for one second. So, in this respect, be careful because what if someone does give him the attention he craves? Its so easy to fall in that trap.

The good news is that most people are very committed to their relationships and even though they flirt on occasion they do know where the line lies. Thus, they back off or sometimes the attraction wears off after a while simply because they realize it is just an infatuation and in reality it i not going anywhere or maybe that person does not feel the hole they though they where filing to begin with.

Facebook and technology in general allows us to share with other people in ways that where not possible before and are more socially acceptable. It allows you to find out more about that person that catches your eye. Something that would had been weird in the old days. I mean, you wouldn't go through someones pictures and investigates their interest back in the days would you? Is the new norm and the rules on etiquette and relationships are still being written.