POLL: If you had a child that died, would you?

[April]

I was a Hospice Nurse. People handle death & grief differently. What she shows on the outside may not be what she is feeling on the inside. Also, if she put mother of 3 & people start asking her how old they are, she then has to say that one died. I'm sure it's hard enough for her, without having to explain that all the time. It's difficult for people to understand others feelings. I lost 3 babies before they were born. No one to ever understand my grief. They thought my pain shouldn't be so bad, because I never saw them. My infertility specialist explained that women who lose children the way I did suffer the same as if they had died after a few years. We finally did have a daughter. In my mind I'm the mother of 4, however strange that may sound.