What should I do about this problem?

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Alfie, you've made a little bit of an error. You only just met her at your mate's house and you two got on well then straight away you went on facebook and asked her out. This is not how to capture a girl love. You've failed to build a genuine relationship of trust in the first place. The way you went about things was a bit akward for her to give you a good reply or take you to be a gentleman who is seriously looking for love.

I know you thought you might not be lucky enough to meet her in person again but you should had first told her at your friend place if it was okay to contact her via facebook and let her agree to it. Anyway, you failed to do that and you went straight online and contacted her on facebook requesting her to hang out with you. That in itself is a bit odd and creepy from a lady point of view. Please do not get me wrong, because I am a guy but I've tried to see how this girl looked at your action.

What you should had done after contacting her on facebook, was to apologise to her that you had to contact her on facebook because you feel that you might not easily see her in person again. By saying so, she could had understood you that you are a very intelligent guy and she would understand. My reason for saying this is: There are decent girls out there that do not like to be contacted online which will lead to a sexual relationship except if it is an online dating website, not facebook. . .but other girls do not mind though. So it is just a matter of individual principle. Even after you've contacted her she replied you but not relevant to what you've asked her. She is very intelligent to reply you in the first place. Do you know why? You did not give her enough time to get chatting with you on facebook before you started asking her out and her reply to you mean that she has concerns and her concerns could be that you need to take things a bit easy with her because your request was a bit pre-mature. Not that she does not like you and I believe she likes you.

But guess what? All is not loss dude. I think this girls likes you in spite of the errors you've made. Try talking to her on facebook again for few months and ask her out again. Maybe she thinking that if she just follow you out you might take her too easy and cheap to get. Goodluck