Am I gay/bi in denial!?!?!?

[Lewis]

If you find guys attractive in real life (walking through the street and some celebs) then you are gay. However that is only if you don't feel the same way about girls. You have got to question yourself and be 100 percent honest because if you are not then you are in denial. Do you find guys and girls attractive in the same way? You said that you fantasize about girls. But are you attracted to ones in real life?

If this is too confusing for you then you should just go with what you like.It is no good asking other people. It is up to you to come to terms with your sexuality. So if you like a girl then follow it. The same with a guy. then it will all come clear with time.

About the coming out topic. There is no need to worry. You should not come out to anyone until you know for sure. The best way to come out to family is to tell them or write a letter and put it somewhere that you know they will look. Once you have your family on your side. The rest will just come to you.