My Husband and His EX?? I think he loves her?

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so the next time he brings her up in any way that doesn't have to do with their son and a drop off pick up - say, what does that have to do with today? why do you care? He will say, I don't! Then say, then why are you still talking about her?

next time he says - well my ex hates when I did this (you say, wow, my ex loved when I did this to him) - send the message right on back to him

its not cool he goes outside - he probably discusses his mother with his son - I'd ask him did you need to go outside for a reason? then everytime you take a phone call - go in the other room or outside and be just as secretive

he needs to see what he is doing is harmful - sad his ex won't even talk to him - there are unresolved feelings he needs to heal and move on . . .