How to get a friend to pay up?

[Jayree]

First of all, you should really avoid giving people money unless you have it to burn. You never know if you can really trust them :/


Meet her some where, go to her house, something, and talk to her with no distractions. Tell her that you really need the money.
Tell her (when/if she doesn't get the money to you by the deadline) that you wont be loaning her any more.
Be polite, don't be aggressive.


If it's been about three months, then accept that you've lost your money. And if you want to use legal action, make sure you have evidence that you let her BORROW the money and that you didn't GIVE it to her.