Please give me your advice on what to do with this girl!! Please read?

[Mark]

Ok I’ll try and help you here buddy because I’ve been in a similar situation before, the first question you have to ask yourself is, if this girl is worth making an effort for, do you really like her? If the answer is yes, then you’re going to have to do some work because she seems to be the type who’s not quite sure what she wants and you’re going to have to convince her that you’re the guy for her or at least someone she should meet up with. Meaning you’re going to have to chase after her, not in a stalker way or anything but you’re going to have to try a few times to get her to go out with you but play it cool. It seems from what you have said that she is interested in you otherwise she wouldn’t of friended you or chatted with you via facebook/text but it also seems she’s afraid of making any type of commitment or meeting in person, that’s not uncommon so don’t worry, I think you’re doing a good job so far, you gave her some space so this shows you’re not clingy and desperate, that’s good, now you have to make a second attempt and see what’s going on with her now, you should casually text her and see whats she’s been up to and catch up. Once you’ve established contact with her again after a few days (make sure it’s a few days don’t ask immediately that will scare her off) bring up meeting up again but this time make it clear to her you just want to hangout as your not looking for anything serious but like to hangout with cool girls you have things in common with, no strings just as buddies (be careful you don’t fall in to the friends zone here) You have to give her the impression that you’re different and a cool person to chill out with, you need to make her feel comfortable through your texting so if she does decide to meet up with you she’s not going to feel any pressure when you’re hanging out, so basically when your talking to her be confident and casual, so make her feel if you guys do meet up your just going to hangout and have some fun, once you feel she’s comfortable with you suggest you guys meet up, if she’s still making excuses hang back for a few days and then try again, as I said before she may be the type you’ll need to do this a few times with but every time you do, make sure you come of as you’re not that bothered if you meet up or not, after a while she will come around if she doesn’t then at least you know you’ve done the best you could do and it shouldn’t bother you to much because you made the effort and you cant win them all, but I know persistence pays just as long as you play it cool, that is the key, so good luck buddy I hope some of this long message makes sense.