How to break outta my shyness?

[Wouter]

Try to see yourself as a friend. Not someone wanting to ask her out. Try to make friends with her friends. Ask her if she and her friends would like to go to a movie with you (you can decide if you want to take other people with). Youre probably not as bad as you think. You might want to use positive selftalk as well.. It helps A LOT. I did it for quite some time to get over my fear. Anyway, just remember that its small steps. Dont try and go all out the first time. Maybe just go over the first time and say something like "Hey, you hear about (blah blah blah) and then try to talk about what she likes the next time etc. You get it?
Anyway hope it kinda helps