PLEASE Please !!! help me with my confusing ex boyfriend?

[abbeycoolit]

Yes you are indeed confused but I do not understand why.To cut to the chase,this guy has told you that he only wants to be friends with benefit with you. To prove that point ,he is talking to another gal and saying he does not like you.He likes you but only as a sexual partner which is what friends with benefits means and you apparently do not have an issue with that since you say that you have a lot of feelings for him.I can not again figure out why you have feelings for a guy who says that you are only good as a sex toy and nothing more,not as a gal he can be a couple with.You do not have to do anything with him that you do not want to do whether it is oral sex or any kind of sex ;however,you have indicated that you will not mind having a sex only relationship with him so I guess you have to have oral sex with him or have actual sex with him.