I'm really bitter towards my ex's girlfriend, how should I deal with it?

[loudbird485]

you seem like the kind of person who doesn't like to cause waves or tries to see the best in people.
that is all well in good. but in reality you really need to have a dose of reality. You might have a set or morals that another person might not have (like possibly this girl) you have to deal with.

in saying this above. i would suggest that you stay on good terms with her. I would not try to be friends with her or confide in her or trust her as far as you can throw her. You should at least agree to be civil with each other and respect to keep certain things on the down low.

i would talk to her and say i know we had a crazy interaction with each other. I"m not looking for friendship or the like but we can be civil with each other in this group. Please keep my passed out of this and name none if the topic arises like the experiences we had to share.

i would just keep it at that.

if she plays dirty then you can react in the manner that seems fitting for you. but just talk to agree to be civil.

last words i have is don't trust or become friends with a person who has back stabbed you, stole ur man, didn't care about ur feelings at any point of time. Bringing a person into your life like that makes you look like a joke who she will not respect you at all. Plus you have to stand up for ur self, its principle. plus she's not the type who can be trusted. keep ur smarts together when dealing with people like this.

hugs