Overprotective and Overly Involved Mom?

[Rebecca]

You are right. Your mother is living vicariously through you. You should set up a new facebook account with just your friends on it. Make it private so your mother can't see it. Post to your old wall that this is no longer your facebook account, but your mother impersonating you. Also, send it out as messages. If they choose to play along with her, fine. Just know that you are no longer associated in any way with that account. Dates made with you or activities arranged will have to be fulfilled by your mother. Then, ask your gtandmother if you can stay with her on your school breaks. Give your cellphone back to your mother, but first send out a mass text to your contacts that your number has changed with similar disclaimers as the ones you used on facebook. Tell your mom and dad they both need help, and you'll be back when/if they get it.