How can i meet friends.. girls? etc.?

[Patrick of Peel]

At 14 years of age the LAST thing you need is an actual girlfriend or one specific person to limit you.
Instead, I suggest you get out of the house and join some sports or social group such as a church choir if you have a good voice, or any other teen group at your church. As for sports, make it a very physical or casual activity with or without your clothes on. By that I mean anything from chess to swimming. Swimming, especially at organizations such as the YMCA is very inexpensive to join and you meet lots of people. When you go out together after swim practice, you are all nice and clean from the showers and you can get close to one another without the problems of body odor.
Organize a group night at the theater or a concert. Go as a group and sit boy/girl/boy/girl all together. TALK to one another and end the evening with a pizza night as a group. NO ALCOHOL no potty mouths and no touchy feeling experiments the first time. Enjoy your friends as friends not as potential sex partners. The sex will come later (hopefully at 18 or older).


Relax, be patient and SPEAK TO don't just text some nice girls.