I really like this girl... what should i do?

[Amy]

I too am a lesbian, figuring this out recently at the age of 23. And I know exactly where you are coming from. Sometimes it is hard to tell if someone is gay or not and it's especially difficult if you like this person. I had a few crushes in high school that were like that concerning other girls but I never approached them or spoke with them about it. I just let it go. However, looking back, I wish I had somehow approached them. My advice would be to relax and be yourself, however don't approach them and tell them you like them right away. Get to know them as a friend first, but make sure they know exactly who you are. Don't hide that fact. Just don't be too forward with her, just be cool and try to create a friendship with her first.